Our world teaches us to want things. We have dreams and aspirations
and they are specific. We ask little kids all the time what they
want to be when they grow up, and we expect answers like fireman or
scientist. We wish on stars and candles, and we hold these wishes
close to our hearts.
Wishing is narrow and particular, and that's not a bad thing. If you
are in college, and you want to pursue a particular career, you need
to know what you want to do so that you can take the necessary
classes to earn the degree you need. You need to have a narrow
enough focus to turn life science, into biology, into medicine, into
brain surgery. If you want to be a neurosurgeon, taking only general
health and medical classes won't get you there.
But wishing is like using a peephole filter. If you take a piece of
cardboard, and cut a tiny hole in it, and use it to look at the
world, you will have an extremely narrow focus. What is interesting,
is that things you see are clearer (I wear glasses, but I can use a
tool like this to actually see things further away without them).
But there is a ton of things you can't see because you can only look
at one little area at a time.
When you leave yourself open, without expectations, you are allowing
'whatever' into your life. Whatever is a powerful thing, especially
when whatever is in the hands of a higher power, a guide or your own
subconscious. When we open ourselves to whatever, we allow ourselves
to welcome in things we might not have otherwise experienced.
One of the very common examples for wishing versus whatever is love
spells. A lot of people feel very strongly that you should never use
magic to make someone else fall in love with you. Some people are
okay with using magic to catch a particular person's attention
(though what you do with that attention after you have caught it is
up to you), and some think that any targeted magic is an interference
with other people's free will. But no matter what your ethical take
on it is, doing a targeted love spell is very much using a wish. You
are deciding a particular person to pin your attentions on.
Doing whatever love magic is when you work to open yourself to love,
or bring love into your life, without putting limits on it. And it
doesn't have to be an absolute thing either. You can put some
perimeters on your working, things that you might be unable to
compromise on, and still leave the rest open. For example, if you
have children, one thing that you may want to include is that the
person you comes into your life must be compatible with your kids.
The trick comes in knowing when to work with the wish and when to
embrace whatever. And that is not only a very thin line but also a
very hazy one. If you never wish for particular things, motivation
becomes an issue. Leaving everything up to the universe doesn't
afford us a lot of stability, and it is hard to work towards a goal
if you don't have a goal.
On the other hand, learning when a wish is a true desire versus an
idle dream can also be tricky. To go back to the love spell, we may
have always thought we were only attracted to brown hair, and be
tempted to put that in our spell, but if you think about it a moment,
it's not the hair that is important, its the attraction, so you can
work your spell to embrace whatever by asking for someone with whom
you have a strong physical attraction, instead of someone with brown
hair.
The big thing to remember, when deciding wish or whatever, is to
really examine what your motivations are. How vital is something to
your essence? If you can imagine other things that you would be just
as happy with, then you may need to work on opening to whatever
instead of wishing. If even the thought of something else makes you
miserable, then perhaps you should wish.
And if we are very careful, we can work both at the same time. To
take the job example, we can wish to become a doctor, work to become
a doctor, and embrace the whatever of finding a job that not only
fills our physical needs but our intellectual and emotional ones as
well. By holding the wish, and working toward it, we move forward.
By embracing the whatever, if we suddenly are offered the opportunity
to be a singer and produce an album, something we may have never even
considered as a carrier, we can jump to the new dream.
The trap to whatever is that you can't stop acting just to wait on
it. You have to be moving or you won't recognize the blessings that
whatever has brought to your life. You have to be willing to jump on
them, grab them and run with them, as soon as they appear, because
whatever can be fleeting. And you can't rely upon whatever, so if
you want to pay your bills, you have to do something in the meantime.
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